The Start of the Fertility Journey
We say fertility testing is the beginning of “The Fertility Journey,” and it is. However, it’s more like Phase Two of the beginning of The Fertility Journey. The first phase begins when a couple looks at one another in consternation, recognizing all those negative pregnancy tests, or returned periods, are starting to feel a little scary.
If you are reading this, you have discovered conception does not always happen overnight. Per the American Society of Reproductive Medicine, your highest chances of success occur during the first three months of trying, and the clear majority of couples will conceive within one to two full years of trying – 80% and 90%, respectively.
When to Schedule Your First Visit with a Fertility Specialist
Age is probably the most important factor to consider. Women over 35, and men over 50, are more likely to have a difficult time trying to conceive. In most cases we recommend:
Women under the age of 35 years visit a fertility specialist after trying to conceive for 12 consecutive months without pregnancy. Women age of 35-39 years visit a fertility specialist after trying to conceive for 6 consecutive months without getting pregnant. Women 40 years and over visit a fertility specialist proactively or after trying to conceive for 3 – 6 months consecutive months without success. It is always best for both partners attend the first visit with a fertility specialist – even if the woman has a known fertility issue such as PCOS or endometriosis. Firstly, it ensures you are both on the same page, hearing the same information, at the same time. Secondly, male infertility factors are equally as common as female infertility factors, thus it’s best that both partners are evaluated so your doctor can select the best method of treatment right from the beginning.
Fertility Tests – the Basics
Once the preliminary physical stats and medical histories are noted and discussed, your fertility specialist will begin to evaluate five separate factors that affect your chances of conceiving:
- The Eggs
- The Sperm
- The Uterus
- The Fallopian Tubes
- The Cervix
The Sooner the Better – Realistically Speaking
When it comes to fertility, there are three realities to contend with. The first is that most couples are NOT infertile. The second is that about 1 in 8 couples (roughly 12% of married women) have trouble conceiving or carrying a baby to full-term, so you’re not alone (2006-2010 National Survey of Family Growth, CDC). Finally, there is the age issue to contend with: the older you are after age 34, the longer it can take and the more difficult it is to conceive.
Once you’ve crossed one of the relevant failing-to-get-pregnant-without assistance- thresholds we referenced at the beginning (12 months after trying to conceive for women 34 years and younger, 4-6 months after trying to conceive for women 35 and older), it’s a good idea to schedule an appointment with a fertility specialist sooner, rather than later. The longer you wait, the longer it can take to find the appropriate treatment for your infertility diagnosis, and time is of the essence if age and/or egg quantity is at all a factor.
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